Gemstones and flowers are as commonly published in US lists; sources differ, so use them as ideas.
Ivory gift ideas for the 14th anniversary
- Ivory-colored stationeryFind it: AmazonEtsy
- Bone chinaFind it: AmazonEtsy
- Ivory-tone flowersFind it: AmazonEtsy
- Ivory-colored rosesFind it: AmazonEtsy
- Ivory stationery set for love letters
Gold jewelry gift ideas
- Gold jewelry
- A gold chain or ring
- Gold-plated keepsake
Gemstone and flower ideas
- Opal jewelry: a ring, pendant or earrings with the year’s stone.Find it: AmazonEtsy
- Dendrobium orchid: a bouquet on the day, or a plant that lasts.
An experience instead of a thing
Write each other a letter about your favorite moments so far.
Make it personal
Pair the theme with something only you two would understand: a place, a song, a date. A short handwritten note listing a favorite memory from each year costs nothing and is often the part people keep. Need words? Try the message writer.
These are the themes most widely published in the US. Lists in the UK and elsewhere differ for a few years; follow whichever your family uses.
Never miss your 14th anniversary
Tell us the date and we will email you two weeks before, with ivory and gold jewelry gift ideas for that year. Add the year you married and we will match the theme every year after.
Frequently asked questions
What is the traditional 14th anniversary gift?
Ivory. Ideas include ivory-colored stationery, bone china, ivory-tone flowers.
What is the modern 14th anniversary gift?
Gold jewelry.
What is the 14th anniversary gemstone and flower?
Many US lists give opal as the gemstone and dendrobium orchid as the flower. Lists differ, so treat these as ideas, not rules.
How should we celebrate our 14th anniversary?
Write each other a letter about your favorite moments so far.
Tips from travellers
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