Is regifting OK?
Yes, if the gift is new, suits the person and will not get back to the original giver. Remove any notes or tags.
Thank-you notes
Send one within a couple of weeks, and within about three months for wedding gifts. Mention the gift and how you will use it.
When someone gives you a gift and you have nothing
Say thank you warmly. You do not have to reciprocate on the spot; if it feels right, give something later.
Asking for money or experiences instead
It is fine to say so if someone asks what you would like. On invitations, a short line like “Your presence is the only gift we need” works well.
Opening gifts
In many cultures gifts are opened in front of the giver; in some, including many Asian cultures, they are opened later. Follow the host’s lead.
Gifts to avoid in some cultures
- In Chinese tradition, clocks and anything in sets of four.
- In some Hindu families, leather goods for religious occasions.
- Alcohol for people who do not drink, and food for people with dietary restrictions you are not sure about.
