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Sympathy and condolence

A gesture of support, not a gift in the usual sense. Customs vary by faith and family.

When someone has lost a loved one

Sympathy and condolence

Photo: Vimukthi, CC BY-SA 3.0, via Wikimedia Commons

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Left it late?

  • Card: Free.
  • Food delivery: Instant.

Etiquette

  • Follow the family’s wishes; some ask for donations instead of flowers.
  • In many Hindu families flowers are not sent to the home; check customs.
  • Food and practical help are often most needed.

How much to spend

Modest; the support matters more than the gift.

What to write in the card

I’m so sorry for your loss. Thinking of you and your family.
Holding you close in my thoughts.
With deepest sympathy and love.

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Frequently asked questions

When is Sympathy and condolence?

When someone has lost a loved one.

How much should I spend for Sympathy and condolence?

Modest; the support matters more than the gift.

What is a good last-minute gift for Sympathy and condolence?

Card: Free. Food delivery: Instant.

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